Help make important decisions
You should remember one thing, never help make decisions for someone else. Your enthusiasm can mislead others, your limitations can affect them. Different decisions can have vastly different results.
So don’t help anyone make big decisions, even if you have a lot of experience, or even how close you are to them. The reason is because each person has a separate life and you do not fully understand their thoughts and actions. Sometimes, you unintentionally decide to work for someone, affecting their future. Don’t let their biggest regret in life have to do with you.
Help those who don’t want help
What to do when you want to help a loved one get rid of a bad habit but the person refuses? Of course, no one wants to leave their friends and family but you have to understand that whatever you do, it may be in vain.
No matter how hard you try, if a person doesn’t want your help then in this situation you are wasting your own time. This is hard to accept, especially if you’re trying to get someone out of a bad situation, but all you can do here is hope that person changes their mind and accepts the situation. your help before it’s too late.
Try to please everyone
There is nothing wrong with trying to please a dear and dear friend. However, if you always have such thoughts there is a chance that at some point you will regret it. First, you can’t always please everyone. And second, if you try to please someone, you may lose yourself in the process.
Stay away from people who are trying to change your behavior, lifestyle or appearance. Most likely, this person is a manipulator. Don’t do what these people say because they are really selfish. True selfishness is being able to force others to do what one wants just to achieve their own goals. And because of that, you will be hurt by their words or actions. Live with yourself, think and take care of yourself more.
Love people who are not ready to start a serious relationship
You should not foolishly accept unconditional love and sacrifice for someone who is not ready to start a serious relationship. Unconditional love is the best, but only when both of them dedicate their minds and their lives to each other. Don’t waste your time and energy trying to make someone happy if you realize they’re with you just waiting for a better option. No matter how painful it is, there’s no use waiting to be loved.
Never beg anyone to start a serious relationship with you. If this person loves you, they will know how to make you happy. Remember that you deserve more than that, not sitting around waiting for things in vain.
Give everything simply and for free
Helping others is good, but don’t be too generous to give something for free because you will most likely receive negative complaints in return. When you give, you only receive love in return if that person is in trouble and desperately needs your things, they will appreciate and say thank you most sincerely.
For example, you want to give away a large fish tank in your home. But what you get in return are unreasonable requests such as: the tank must have fish, free shipping… However, there are exceptions, you can give it away if you meet someone who is really poor and needs this item. . If not, you can bring unused items to charities.
Always help fake people
If a person is in a really desperate situation, you should try to help them. But there’s a type of person who gets into trouble all the time and doesn’t seem like they’re trying to solve their problems, but just wants the help of friends and family, so you should stay away from them. If you lend money to such a person, chances are you won’t get it back.
It’s easy to spot such people. Try asking this person to pay back your borrowed money, you will get a nasty attitude and possibly hate. They will try to make you feel as if you are a heartless monster. So, if someone asks to borrow money from you, you should lend them an amount that you are comfortable with so that in the worst case you don’t get it back, you won’t be disappointed. And of course, don’t help anyone if that puts you in a dangerous situation.
Help the things that harm others
Have you ever been in a situation where your best friend asked you to harm someone else? This really shouldn’t be done even though it’s a close friend asking for help.
If someone asks you for help to hurt another person, it is best not to help. The reason is because, you never know how the things you do, even out of kindness, can have a negative impact on a third party. In this case, your kindness will turn into malice.