No respect for you
He always makes decisions without knowing what you think. He denigrates your outfit or brings up your flaws without thinking, which could upset you. In short, even if he is a lover, he does not want and make no effort to understand you.
He doesn’t care what you want, and just does what he wants. No matter what you do, he won’t change his mind. Do you want to continue with this person? Find yourself someone worthy. You are worthy of respect.
You don’t see a future with him
Forget about flash relationships, if you intend to build a life with him later but Can’t see the future of two people in it, it means you fell in love with the wrong person.
What is love? After a period of love, two people feel a connection and want to go further to be able to be together for a long time. But what if you can’t think like that no matter how hard you try? It also means that you have “set” your love affair with an ending right from the beginning. And then, you should know that you need to step out of this fruitless relationship.
Don’t let you hold his phone
If you love each other, you have nothing to hide from each other, right? He justifies his actions don’t let you see your phone To have a life of your own? Why there’s nothing to keep you from touching his phone, there’s no excuse for it. Is he flirting with other girls, and are you just a hooker girl?
Deception is always an unacceptable sign and a warning of an unsustainable future. So, when the man you’re dating lies to you and you know for sure, you should think twice. Maybe at that time, because you were so in love, you were ready to let go. If the lie is of nature, then even later when you are married, the danger from this cover-up will only threaten your marriage.
He shows no signs of love
In fact, not all couples show their loving gestures in public such as holding her hand…. They will often have their own way of expressing their feelings. But you should remember, it is necessary to clearly define what it means to not show affection due to fear of love between hiding from many people and avoiding feelings?
Even if it’s just the two of you, he still do not show affectionLike closeness, sitting far away from you… When you don’t see any signs of love, seriously redefine this relationship. Remember, the ocean is not just a drop of water. Each of us has the opportunity to choose the right option for ourselves.
Not respecting your opinion
He didn’t think about the attitude and your emotion, he always interrupts and thinks he is right. My advice for you now is to kick him out of your mind. With patriarchal guys, disrespecting your partner will hardly bring you a happy ending
In all arguments and battles, no matter how right and right you are, his opinion is the final decision and the method he offers is the best at this time.
He doesn’t think about your attitude and feelings at this time, he always interrupts and thinks he is right. My advice for you now is to kick him out of your mind. With patriarchal guys, disrespecting your partner will hardly bring you a happy ending. When love is like that, it’s time to marry him, how can he find a voice in life. Only then will you be pressured.
He hates your friends and relatives
Instead of trying to prove his sincerity and score points in the eyes of his lover’s family and friends, he tries to divide your feelings with people. He even turns to speak ill of your loved ones, making you have a negative view of them. A guy like that doesn’t deserve to be loved at all.
Don’t like taking you to crowded places or attending events
If your guy only likes to date with two people and is awkward when you meet people you know, he doesn’t want to either. introduce you with his friends watch out. Surely something is wrong.
Let’s confess, there must be a reason why you don’t want to let him see your close friends after a long time of dating. Usually it falls into two categories: You are not confident in yourself and you are not confident in him.
In the first case, it sounds awkward but it is just another way of saying that wearing a mask when in love. When you’re not confident in yourself and try to hide it from him, you’re wearing a mask.
In the second case, there must be something that makes you not confident about him in front of your loved ones. You feel he’s not okay, you feel bad about him when you put him in your social circle. So how do you love people when you yourself are not accepting them for who they are?
He manages you 24/7
Even your parents don’t manage you 24/7, right? If your guy is like that, it would be unwise and not right to continue a relationship with him. Do you want to live without always having to tell him where you go, or is it even scarier that he is always with you 24/7 everywhere, meeting everyone? Life is yours and you did nothing wrong to put yourself in the mental prison of such a jailer.
You want someone who cares and shares your life stories, but you don’t need a second father. If he always tries manage you are everywhere and all the time, so why should you try to continue a relationship with such a “guardian”?
He doesn’t make time for you
If a person truly loves you, he will be ready spend a lot of time with you. If you find that the guy you are dating is not interested in spending time with you, he always spends his free time just playing games, coffee or eating with friends, always refuses to date you then you should talk and talk to him. consider this relationship.
You always feel like you’re not good enough
If your guy always criticizes you, comments about you negatively, doesn’t respect your efforts, then you are dating the wrong person. You’ve tried your best, but no matter how hard you try, you still find yourself not, not right, not enough.
You always feel like you have to prove yourself to him but he doesn’t show the opposite. So what are you trying to do next? It was simply that he was too selfish, don’t acknowledge your efforts. Or more simply, his criteria are too different from yours and you are not suitable enough for him.
Not public about the relationship of the two people
The two of you have known and loved each other for a long time, but he has never brought you back family debut or introduce you with your close friends.
When you accidentally catch him with someone, you ask him and only get answers like “acquaintances, colleagues at the company …”. This may be the guy hide something like he’s catching fish with two hands? Or does he not define a serious relationship with you so he won’t introduce you to others?…
When we love someone, we all want to show our love to everyone we know can be loved ones. Therefore, there is no excuse for his actions.
He is a very caring, pampering and gentle person with his lover in his normal state. However, when drunk or angry, he is like a wolf, screaming loudly, smashing things, punching walls, even hitting the person he loves. Although he later shows remorse and apologizes, but often losing control from psychology to acting like that, you need to consider if you want to continue this love story.
One minute angry, aggressive of the other person may cause you both physical and emotional pain. In this case, patience is not a smart choice. Be brave enough to free yourself so you don’t have to suffer for the rest of your life.
Hanging out with them makes you tired
If spending time with someone you love makes you boring and tired, when it’s time to stop your relationship.
This is a rather sensitive category, because being tired or bored when going out often happens when two people meet too much, not simply not compatible. In the second case, even though the two of you don’t spend a lot of time together, every time you go together, you feel like time has passed, or you really reconsider your relationship. Loving each other is for the two of you to have fun, not every moment together is a moment of “mortification”.
When dating, he often forgets his wallet or constantly asks you for financial help
The fact that he often forgot his wallet could not be called because he was absent-minded, but it was clearly intentional. He is not even afraid to ask for gifts or borrow money from his lover. This is clearly he’s going public take advantage of love it’s yours.
A serious person in love will always calm down and consider carefully before taking the relationship to the next step. They will take time to care, learn, emotions will arise and develop in stages. Only indecent men rush, often for the wrong purpose of wanting to possess. However, once you get what you want, the bad guys will also leave you very quickly, leaving you unable to determine when happiness has come and gone. Don’t forget to hurry to come and go too
Be careful with people like this. Does he really love you or is it just because you’re a girl? Do not be gullible and believe it wrong!
You feel like you have to wear a mask
We love each other for who we are, for our own personalities, bad qualities and good things. But what if you feel, in front of him, you always have to be a different person? You have to be gentle and gentle about everything instead of wanting the whole world to explode every time you get angry, just because he likes it? You have to act like a good cat by his side, just because he wants to fall in love with a obedient girl?
Don’t be like that, do you want him to love who he is or love his fantasies of a perfect girl?
Always avoid serious conversations
Facing conflicts in love is inevitable, but when he or you want to have a serious conversation, the other person tries to avoid it. Guy hide because he doesn’t want the conversation to affect their relationship, but it also shows that he doesn’t value this love.
Facing each difficulty and conflict is always a must-do of every relationship. And your avoidance shows that you don’t take your relationship that seriously. Or you simply don’t want to let those conflicts break your love. But don’t, Nietzsche has a very famous saying: “There are people who avoid the truth because they don’t want it to destroy their illusions”. Would love still be true love if they were just your fantasies? Ask yourself that question and find the answer yourself to see if your current love is an illusion.
Constantly doubting your choices
In love, the most taboo thing is suspect enemy. The longer you stick together, the more you have to put your trust in the person you love. If this state of anxiety persists, your relationship is really not good.
Break up when all your efforts are brutally crushed by the person closest to you. The scariest thing is when you start to believe what the other person says is true. Therefore, free yourself as soon as possible.
There are many complicated relationships
Does your lover have too many complex relationships, sometimes seen with this girl, sometimes with another girl. And you are explained that it is friendship, or sworn brother.
O gullible girl, don’t listen to him, there’s no such thing as a love between a man and a woman called close friendship. Surely one of those two will have feelings for each other and are waiting for the opportunity to kick you out of their love.
He doesn’t share his feelings with you
Everyone has their own secrets and doesn’t want others to know. But if the guy you’re dating is pretty quiet and rarely shows his feelings in front of you, this is not a good sign.
Men are not as soft and sentimental as women, do not show it feel out like sisters. You always have to see how his mood is right now, how he feels after each thing he does, the relationship between you and that person is not sustainable.
You should know that sharing and understanding are the factors that make your relationship better. Let’s share joys and sorrows with your other half. If the guy you are dating doesn’t want to share this with you, it means that he doesn’t trust and value you as a companion in all your problems.
Not by your side when you need it
Guys don’t necessarily have to be with their girlfriends 24/7, but he’s the one who’s always there for you when you need them. You should love a guy who can put everything aside and try to come to you early when you have a sad story, or listen to your confidants. He is also the one who gently wipes your tears when you are sad.
When in love, although he is extremely clumsy, he still takes care of you very carefully such as buying medicine, cooking porridge for you when you are sick. Geographic distance can’t keep you apart, but a phone call or text message cares when you’re tired, encouragement when you’re trying… this proves he loves you very much.
You know a guy who doesn’t text back, doesn’t show up when you need it…then this is a warning sign that you are in love with the wrong person and should end the relationship.
Always manipulating you
The person who always commands you, forces you to follow their preferences and requests, proves that he has never respected you. What they do will only make you feel worse. They never understand, their wrong to you will make you always feel the loss of freedom and self-determination. Take this person out of the relationship and think seriously about your future with them.
Underestimate your efforts
In conversations, he was always the one who acted absentmindedly and just waited for his turn to speak, not even waiting for his turn to interrupt. He can be athletic about his hard day at work, but doesn’t care how tired you are. He’s always the one to suggest the places you want to go when you’re talking about travel, and also the one to put all your ideas out of the plan. Would you still want to date such an overbearing guy?
A person who, despite seeing your efforts and changes but never giving you compliments, pretends everything is normal. That person is the person don’t know how to encourage and empathize. This relationship should not be continued.
He wants the world to revolve around him
Simply, if you feel that your lover only thinks about how you will fit into his world, rather than vice versa, that’s when you’re dating the wrong person.
Why? So why would you want to date a person whose every action can only say: Me! I! I. Isn’t love for both of you to share and face all those problems? If they just want you to sacrifice for them and still refuse to change for you, then surely, they don’t value you and in their eyes only four words of self-interest appear. What, you still want to date a selfish guy like that?
Loving each other is the effort of both to build a cohesive relationship based on the sharing and sacrifice of two people. But he just wants you to try to fit him without trying to change or at least share with you, so in his eyes he only has personal interests, never has you. Is it worth loving someone like that?
Feeling no connection
Love is often connection between two souls Therefore, in the mind of two people, more or less, they will still feel the harmony of love.
This is like an invisible rope connecting two people in a relationship. In particular, women are inherently very sensitive, so if your heart tells and feels that the current relationship does not have any connection. Although you are cultivating this relationship, but the other person is always indifferent and does not care about you, you should stop this immediately. Because all your efforts are futile and meaningless.
Don’t care about your preferences
Such a person will be extremely heartless in later life. Surname Do not care to your hobbies, habits or any passions. They rarely support what you do. It’s simply that he’s too selfish, not acknowledging your efforts.
Body language never lies. When in love, a man always shows loving actions such as stroking his hair, touching his cheeks, etc. Suddenly one day, that habit gradually disappears, proving that the person you love is no longer acceptable to you. like before.
He often belittles and degrades you in front of everyone
When in love, people will help each other to perfect themselves, because no one is perfect. However, your man always makes you feel self-deprecating, instead of encouraging you to be more positive from thinking to acting.
Not only that, he is also often friends embarrassing in front of friends, acquaintances and even strangers. With a man like that, there was no reason not to give up early.
He behaves rudely towards others
Whether he is a familiar person or a stranger, regardless of age, gender, or even animals, he easily shows his way. rude behaviour.
Such a person is definitely lacking in character and morality. Loving someone like that is like burying yourself in a quagmire.
Their relationship is his only pleasure
A man needs his own habits, his own friends, his own hobbies, his own hobbies. And when you and your love are his definition of habits, friends, hobbies, interests, that’s when you should rethink your man. You don’t want to love someone nothing in life private, right?
Furthermore, these guys are often soft, domineering, and selfish (otherwise they would have had more than one friend), so try to get out of the relationship if you’re everything. stuff (literally) in his world.
When you are frequently confused or annoyed by the unreasonable jealousy of your partner, especially when you’re both in public, consider your relationship. Is it love or just appropriation?
There are many things in life that help to bond your love and that of your significant other but jealousy can easily ruin it all in an instant. In fact, when you feel self-doubt, naturally jealousy and suspicion arise. Please control yourself well, use reason to analyze the situation, do not let subjective reasons affect your mood.