Don’t be blindly jealous
In love, jealous It is an indispensable spice that makes love more sublimated. However, jealousy can’t make that person only care about me and understand my feelings? Some people want to let their partners know they love them, but excessive, sometimes overwhelming jealousy makes them feel more controlled and less free. There are many couples who cannot last long because of excessive jealousy.
Behave intelligently so that your love is more complete. Let love have space “to breathe” before things go too far. Sometimes it is the things you “dream about” that suffocate love, causing it to “suffocate” both literally and figuratively.
This seems simple, but a lot of you can’t do it and it is the cause of many broken relationships. We all like each other when we love each other, we all want to own, just want the other person to be our own without knowing right and wrong in all circuTaxances. Such behavior is not good, everyone needs it private space for yourself, such as when meeting friends, or about work… in life there is no shortage of such moments.
In many cases, just because their partner is with the opposite sex, they don’t ask right and wrong, behave very childishly and then resent for no reason, while it’s nothing, think about it when the boyfriend, you What will my daughter think, she must be very disappointed. So when you love each other, you need to give each other space to have your own time to feel free and comfortable, when you have such a psychological lover, you will not need to take the initiative, but he or she will miss you and come to you. , the two people’s love deepens because of their sincere understanding.
Please share everything, especially the unhappy ones
If something makes you feel uncomfortable, be ready share with lover. It may hurt the other half, but it will help both of you build a closer, more intimate relationship.
You should also learn to distinguish when your loved one is hiding something from you. Of course, this is not easy, but it is it that makes you learn the word “Ring”.
Strong relationships don’t always require sacrifices
The sacrificelove is probably obvious. You try to keep the relationship happy by constantly sacrificing yourself for the other person.
However, to help the relationship become long-lasting, both need to keep their own personality, only gradually remove the selfish never mind. It is not always necessary to make sacrifices for the unreasonable, improper things.
Honestly share your needs
This is extremely important because it will create comfort and harmony for both of you from the first days of getting to know each other until later. If you need some alone time to hang out with your close friends, visit family, or simply do what you love, go for it. straight tell your lover.
Even if you feel like it’s not really necessary, do it for yourself. Don’t just have love but neglect other essential needs and relationships.
Respect each other.
In love, if one of the two has an offensive attitude, lack of to respect With the person you love, that love will certainly not last. You know that when society is developing more and more like today, people are more and more affected by many complicated problems, especially work, so those pressures have been invisible. become stress, irritation, and anger appear more, so many times accidentally hurt people around without realizing it, more serious when angry, they are ready to swear or act disrespectfully to people. My love, this is very dangerous.
Imagine if there is a girlfriend who, when being treated like this, does not feel sad or resentful? This is also the reason that makes the relationship between the two people increasingly distant from each other. Va is in danger of being on the brink of breakdown. Therefore, you need to be very alert, balance your work and love, and knowing that to cherish your lover is to appreciate yourself. Because the ancients taught that in this life finding each other is difficult, but coming together is even harder.
Slow but sure
Often when you wish to own something, you just want how to get the end result as soon as possible. Then what after that? You suddenly realize you’ve gone so fast that you’ve missed out on other important things.
In love too. After the confession, you are immersed in happiness and just want to be with that person all the time. Everything happens in a flash and continuously, from the kiss to the physical touch, to having sex, to getting married and having children. From start to finish, you are swept away in an uncontrollable manner. We don’t even have time to care about our family, friends, work, and even our hobbies and interests. Then after looking back, you feel that you are not as happy as you once dreamed.
Remember “No matter how modern life is, love must have its depth.” So slow things down and let it happen in the correct chronological order. If a relationship takes you a year, 5 years or more, don’t be too impatient, always remember that “unsatisfactory speed” ok
Always show your true self, don’t hide your feelings, what you love and hate. Because living with a mask even with someone you love will make you more tired.
No one can act together for a lifetime, until one day when they realize the truth, it will only make the ending worse. Just be honest from the beginning.
Forget the past
Everyone have past their own, it can be good memories can be painful, but most of it is in the past, most of them are more painful than happy, for some reason they can’t be together, so if it’s in the past, forget it, don’t repeat it and blame it, then accidentally make the other person feel hurt.
You should know how much time it takes for the wound to heal and be ready to receive a new love, a new beginning that is none other than you now, have come together, then live for the present. In the present and the immediate future, make up for your lover’s sadness instead of repeating past heartaches. That is true love.
Nothing is necessarily obvious
Honesty is a precious and necessary virtue in love, however There’s no need to be absolutely honest in any case, because the truth sometimes is not as good as we think and can hurt the person you love. How to know the necessary gap between truth and goodwill?
First, put yourself in the other person’s perspective how you will feel, if really hurt, you should absolutely not choose to be honest. Also, don’t ask what he/she doesn’t want to talk about to avoid causing discord. They don’t want to talk because they know the truth isn’t necessarily fun!
Like any love, as long as they don’t care about each other for a long time, they will gradually fade and not be as passionate as before. So no matter how busy you should be contact ask the other person because there is no work but busy all day without time, the time is arranged by us, so don’t make excuses like that to make your lover more miserable only.
On the contrary, no matter where you go or what you do, but still remember and ask that person regularly every day, the relationship between the two of you will still be good and more importantly, that person will feel his important position in his heart. enemy.
Let’s have the necessary silence
Maybe after you get out of being single, you won’t be interested in where to go or what to do alone. But that’s really necessary.
Those private spaces will help you better understand yourself, know what you need and want. It is also a secret to help you and your lover become more harmonious and deeper.
Ignore the little things
When two different personalities get close to each other, there is bound to be conflict. Don’t try to change your other half. Hold on to your differences and learn to love and forgive. The ideal partner is not someone who is absolutely perfect, but someone whose flaws make you happy adjusted together.
With habits formed in your character, you should not waste time trying to change them because it is impossible, sometimes it will affect the relationship!
Don’t forget about the life around because of love
Maybe in the early days of love, you will like to focus all your time and effort on your lover. You feel great when you share every moment with your loved one and accidentally forget everything around. So love is easy to fall into boredom.
The advice for you is, sometimes you leave your lover to go to parties with friends, accept an invitation to go to a concert with an old colleague or do some extra things overtime, like all the things you used to do before. You should remember that, not every lover has to stick together like “picture and shadow” all the time. Keep trying hard balanced life your own, do not let it be disturbed since the “other half” appeared.
Encourage and celebrate
Things that seem so simple but have a great effect, especially for a boyfriend when his lover does not regret it. praise, promoting the advantages would be great.
Because the mentality of a man always wants to be a solid support for his lover and thus getting a girlfriend trust and flirting will make the boyfriend feel much more confident and will always want to protect you, the two people’s feelings are more and more connected.