Should love at school age?
Just a rain outside the classroom door
As a white man’s shirt, he sleeps
It’s a poem that remains in pairs
Between playtime bring bring back.”
In “A little first love, poet Do Trung Quan writes about childhood love full of poetic and pure. A love affair while sitting in school can be a beautiful memory, it can also be a little regret about the first mistakes in life. So should love at school age?
To answer this question, we need to understand what school-age love is. Love is a feeling of love and respect between people of the opposite sex, a beautiful and sacred human emotion. Love helps us to understand, empathize, share, and forgive. Student age is the age from eighteen to over, the age of going to school every day. People in this age group begin to receive new emotions, the desire to discover their own inner self.
So school-age love is the love and vibration between male and female students. This affection can come from close friendship, from admiration among students in the class or even from competition, following a movement or proving yourself. So, the question of school love cannot be answered as “should” or “shouldn’t” but depends on how each person loves.
Do not fall in love at school age if you love incorrectly, because it can bring about negative effects. The most frightening side effect of school love is not ensuring the study – the main responsibility of the student. When in love, a student may be so focused on the new feelings and emotions of adolescence that he forgets the main task of learning.
Study time will be divided into other interests such as lovers, dating, and nostalgia. Whether you know how to spend time practicing or listening to lectures, the student in love does not easily keep his mind focused on one thing. Moreover, there are many students who miss school, skip classes to meet their lovers – one of the problems that worries teachers and parents.
These are unavoidable influences at an age that is easily seduced by strange things, not yet clearly aware of the obligation to study and practice. Not stopping there, love is not the right age of students, not yet able to distinguish true love. Falling in love at the wrong time is scary, falling in love with the wrong person is even scarier. The student is too young to recognize and choose the right object to trust, share, empathize with and love.
This immaturity leads to waste of time, bad influence on habits, moral character due to the influence of the other person. This has even worse consequences. Recently, “netizens” passed on a sensitive video of two high school students that the male lead released himself. As a result, everyone knows that the female victim committed suicide because she could not stand criticism from the public.
Is the sad ending of this female student stemming from trust, giving love to the wrong person? Besides the two harms mentioned above, another reason why parents forbid their children to fall in love early is the emotional states and levels that the school age cannot anticipate and “deal with”. Love brings all kinds of moods of joy, anger, love, and hate.
When in love, students also cannot avoid jealousy, anger, and grief. Type the keyword “jealous schoolgirl” into the Google search page, we will see a surprising number of results. The cases of female students still wearing uniforms rushing to beat friends, stripping clothes, .. for personal emotional reasons are not lacking.
More frightening is the young heartbroken. School age is a joyful, loving age, not used to feeling lost and sad when love is rejected. Therefore, the scene of students dropping out of school, skipping meals, and even committing suicide because of heartbreak is so common. After all, the big worry in the hearts of parents, teachers when they see their children fall in love improperly is an excessive expression of affection, beyond the limit.
The scene of boys and girls embracing in public – typically at school – is extremely sensitive and insensitive, leading to unpleasant looks, comments, etc. The school age has not yet learned how to control it. emotional, curious about gender; this is the reason behind the scene where couples with school badges on their sleeves stop in front of the motel.
The consequences of having sex before marriage or in adolescence are well known. It is easy to see the words “According to the Vietnam Family Planning Association, each year on average, there are more than 3000 abortions among teenagers” appearing in newspapers and online. Or the scene where the girls go to a psychologist to express their despair because they are not respected by their families and society because they “miss” to give away their precious daughter’s life since they were at school.
From the reasons mentioned above, we understand why there are many opinions that disagree with school love. But everything has two sides, so does school-age love – love in the right way, or age-appropriate also has positive things. First of all, school love is innocent, pure and beautiful vibrations. Love at this age, like love at any other age, gives people a feeling of joy and happiness.
Therefore, the poet Che Lan Vien praised the love of students:
“That nostalgia at first
It’s not easy to forget a thousand years.”
Or as Nguyen Duy said, “Nostalgia for students is lifelong”. Almost everyone has a first love at the age of still sitting in school with people who remember beautiful, memories that will last over the years to recall.
In addition, if you know how to love, school-age love will become a driving force for learning. Young people who love each other can encourage each other to study and practice, remind them to make progress together. Good academic achievement is not only to affirm and perfect yourself in front of a “special friend” but also to convince family and teachers: school love also has its good sides.
Therefore, couples who are aware of this tend to organize group study sessions, tutoring to compensate and compensate for each other. In short, this is an undeniable beauty of love in the time of phoenix flowers. Besides creating efforts to study and practice, love of school gives people the experience and understanding of themselves. The emotions and experiences drawn from the childhood first love at the age of sixteen or seventeen will be the stepping stone for the path to finding happiness in adulthood.
In addition, love at school age helps us learn about other souls, discover valuable personality beauty or shortcomings that need to be compensated in their hearts. So, in this respect, the love of students is right, not wrong. Not stopping here, school love is a tonic for the soul, so that we can live happier, more optimistic and more open-minded.
Students today are under great pressure from academic pressure; Parents urge, teachers remind, this can create psychological wounds for students. Not to mention other bad things in daily life, from family, friends, society. A “special friend” to love, sympathize with, share spiritual difficulties will help us open up. The little joys from the love of school age also make us love life more, be more optimistic and happy.
After learning about two aspects should, should not; Knowing love, not knowing love of the love of students is colorful, we draw lessons about the concept of “love” and “know love”. These are two completely different definitions. While “love” is the vibration of the heart, “knowing to love” is the alertness of the mind. So as mentioned above, school love can’t answer “should” or “shouldn’t” nor “good” – “bad”, “right” – “wrong”. It all depends on the consciousness and perception of each individual.
School-age love will be beautiful and heart-warming if it promotes positive traits, it can also lose its innocence, purity, and beauty if the above harmful effects are not controlled. So how to love right, new? “Knowing how to love” depends on the culture and personality of each person. When you are in love, think about your choice and love, whether the object you love is suitable or not, this love is worth it or not.
If you are determined to follow your heart, keep the love at the age of going to school so pure and beautiful, in accordance with the age, morality and discipline of society. Once in love, students still have to be aware of and promote their responsibilities, their biggest obligation is to study and practice well. To do that, students should take love as a motivation to improve themselves. Only then, school-age love can become a beautiful memory when recalled.
In short, every problem has its right and wrong sides; The same is true of school-age love. Therefore, don’t fall in love, if you let your reason be overwhelmed by your heart, let your first love make you regret it when you talk about it. Love, if the heart can obey reason, keep the first vibrations pure and meaningful to:
“Once again turn to guestbook page
My heart is still a little sweet.”
Need a mature awareness of love
But now, along with the change of social environment, economic development, modern technological means such as internet, mobile phone, the love of students appears at all levels. especially at the middle and high school levels. The phenomenon of two students of the opposite sex hugging each other on a bicycle in broad daylight is not uncommon these days.
If you do a survey at motels, hotels, please ensure that the percentage of students entering there is not significantly lower than that of other age groups. The rate of female students having abortions in medical facilities has increased to an alarming level. Going to the obstetrics department of major hospitals, it is not difficult to recognize the boys and girls with milky faces and take each other to deal with the consequences.
These unfortunate consequences are due to the lack of mature awareness of love, and not being fully equipped with basic life skills, so the phenomenon of students falling in love early has led to undesirable consequences. Falling in love at school age causes a serious decline in learning. Many students in class do not pay attention to the teacher’s lecture, just writing letters or texting their lovers. When he got home, he was as dull as a lost soul. Always living in a state of nostalgia losing sleep and eating.
There is another case where two boys like the same girl, so there is a violent phenomenon to fight for the object. Recently, on the internet, there are many pictures of male and female students fighting because of emotional issues. Scenes that seem only to be seen in the gangsters such as grabbing hair, scratching or holding each other’s faces, stripping each other’s clothes are no longer strange in the middle of school.
With an impulsive nature and the notion that love is a sacrifice, many school-age relationships have had a sad ending when both went overboard and had early sex. In this case, the most disadvantaged often belongs to the female students. In fact, many female students are extremely afraid, panicking and do not know how to handle when they accidentally eat “forbidden fruit” and as a result, the fetus in the abdomen keeps growing while they do not meet the conditions. to be a mother.
In this case, the majority of female students have to accept abortion in order to continue going to school. Due to guilt, shame, fear of family, teachers and friends knowing the story, most of them went to private abortion clinics to deal with the consequences despite the possible dangers. After abortion, many children fall into depression, mental breakdown, greatly affecting their daily life and study.
In some cases, because the family discovered it too late, they were forced to suspend their studies to rationalize the child in the womb even though these girls were not old enough to get married. The role of family and school No one else, parents must be the first to take care of their child’s spiritual life. When you notice abnormal symptoms in your child such as: often coming home late from school, being absent-minded, neglecting to study, frequently calling or texting someone, you must promptly find out and find a way to deal with them. active, tactful, appropriate.
Any extreme prohibition, rough interference in the love affairs of young children at a young age can cause negative reactions, leading to unfortunate consequences. The school should have extra-curricular sessions on the topic of student love so that the insiders themselves can express their opinions about this very complicated and delicate emotion.
Teachers must pay close attention to the thoughts and feelings of their students. Avoid alternating seats between male and female students in the senior years. Physical contact can be one of the reasons children are curious about the opposite sex. Should it be, when detecting children in love early, it is necessary to get close, learn and share, thereby orienting them to perceive friendship and pure love. How to let them see that at school age, the most important thing affecting the future is learning.
In many ways, families and schools need to equip children with basic life skills in adulthood. This includes exchanging and providing basic and necessary knowledge about sex and reproductive health. It is important that the family and teachers in the school be a reliable spiritual support to help students in puberty overcome this psychological period of many changes and disturbances.
Talking about school age love
When you were a student, at least once you had a crush on a cute girl or a cool boy. And perhaps, that is the purest, most sacred feeling that you can never forget. You know, love is hard to explain and so is school-age love. The mixed emotions, happy, sad, angry, angry, … are what you feel. So what do you think about school-age love? Just go find the answer.
Love is an eternal issue of social concern. Each era will have different views and views on love. Especially the love of school age. To talk about school-age love, let’s first learn the concept!
What is student love?
In each of our lives, everyone has memories. A time when I went to school with a black and white chalkboard. Everyone has beautiful memories with friends and teachers. And surely, everyone has their first love at this brilliant time.
Unlike the fervor of adult love, school love is an innocent, naive first love. But it is very pure and does not intend to lose more. We love, we trust and with that person draw sweet dreams. That is youth.
School age is the first time we know how to remember, love a person and know pain. Happiness in school-age love is simple but warm enough. It’s the naive way of expressing affection. It is the shyness to blush, the gentleness in the way to talk to the loved one. Or when we go to school together every day, eat breakfast together, study and work together. And the sadness when the summer comes to be far away or when the other side misses school because of illness.
School love is as virginal as a blank page. We will easily be moved by gestures of concern, a gaze full of affection. Or simply a friendly smile of the opposite sex.
The new age is young, shallow and has many different thoughts. Therefore, school-age love is quite fragile. There are very few couples who love each other and have been together since school age. Many people know that but they still love it. They fully enjoy today, love to the fullest, do not need to worry about life tomorrow. Therefore, we need to respect and cherish those feelings. Don’t let when the time has passed, looking back, we feel regret for a time that has passed.
School age love
In the past, people used to think that school-age love was often very beautiful but also very fragile and fragile. But to this day people still insist that there should be no love at this age. School-age love is sometimes rooted in friendship, but friendship is not always the source of love.
School-age love is a topic that needs much attention when today the rapid development of the mass media, movies, magazines, and stories of foreign countries has been having a very strong influence. coming of age accompanied by unconsciously over-exploring. And the consequences are inevitable and inevitable.
What is the tragedy that happened to the school age? Mild is a decline in learning, lack of concentration in learning. Unfortunately, many girls at this age become victims of abortions or students have to drop out of school to become reluctant young mothers and fathers at the age when they have not yet had enough to eat. Shallow, unconscious, and thoughtless actions that lead to painful endings of suicide, river jumping, and abortion are increasing.
Today, in newspapers for teenagers like purple ink, flower students also have pages dedicated to consulting and answering questions that are of interest to students, but above all is voluntary. self-awareness, is the individual’s own transcendence, must know how to stay away from temptation. Love is only really needed when it gives each other trust, gives each other motivation as well as helps each other towards the future.
At best at this age we don’t necessarily need love. However, for those of you who have made a mistake, don’t be in a hurry to give up, but get up and do it all over again. In short, school-age love is also quite beautiful but complicated. Pupils need to be properly counseled and oriented so as not to have false and fallen thoughts in which the role of school and family is very important.
Also a student of school age, I and my friends try to study together, find true friends to study together better, think carefully so that there are no consequences. pity in love.
Thinking about school-age love
However, at this age, many students face problems that are not easy to solve: a special affection arises for a person of the opposite sex that has long been thought to be just friends. That special, strange feeling is love. Entangled in love, many students have fallen into a state of confusion, not knowing how to solve it.
Love is a wonderful, beautiful human emotion. Stemming from sincerity and naturalness, the love of school age is also worthy of respect. The insider must know how to preserve that love so that it is not dominated by trivial desires, does not damage the reputation of the person they love, and especially does not hinder their own learning and striving.
People with bravery, knowing how to control their emotions with a sober reason, can turn love into a powerful motivation, into a great source of spiritual strength to overcome difficulties and challenges. There have been couples who know how to cultivate their love since they were still in school, to build a family together later, and they deserve to be happy.
On the contrary, there are people who, because they have not been able to control themselves, are attracted by excessive emotions, causing themselves negative consequences, leading to an early state of unhappiness. Those early injuries often have serious consequences later on. Students need understanding to not turn love into an adventure.
For students, it is necessary to determine the central task of learning and training to enter life with solid wisdom, knowledge and life skills. To do so, you must know how to control and control your emotions, especially love. Many times when you have emotional problems, you can’t solve them yourself, go to experienced and responsible people to get the necessary guidance. It is important to understand that the destination of love is marriage. , attached to it is heavy responsibility.
In adolescence, the family burden can be overwhelming. How do you have enough knowledge and experience to care for and raise children? How to have a secure source of income for the life of family members? How can I continue to study to get a career and position in society?
Those are the issues that no student takes into account when in love, but when they are deeply involved, they have to pay the price with their own lives. Sometimes the price to pay is too high. Therefore, the right attitude is to know how to stop properly. Let the first vibes of life forever be the memories of school age.
School-age love is the first vibrations of life
People talk a lot about love: youth love, middle age love, old age love. But there is a hot issue in today’s society that attracts a lot of public attention, which is school-age love. From my own point of view, school-age love is the most beautiful, purest, holiest and most dreamy feeling.
People still call those pure feelings the “first vibrations of life”. In your student life, perhaps more than once you have felt “touched” in front of someone. Before gestures of concern, a loving glance or simply a friendly smile from a friend of the opposite sex can make your heart flutter with feelings of love.
You may have loved the person, liked the person, but not necessarily you were in love. He is always present in your mind every time you are happy or sad, you always care about him every little bit. You are sad because he is cold towards you or indifferent to your gestures of concern. Those are expressions of love but not necessarily true love.
In our school age, love is not a bad thing. Those are the very lovely first human vibrations. There are many people who feel regret about those pure feelings when the school age is over. Therefore, we need to respect and cherish those feelings. Don’t let when the time has passed, looking back, we feel regret.
However, at school age, love is not everything. You can take the time to care for that person, but don’t forget that our main task is still learning, building the future. Every day you are like a bee diligently sucking honey to build your future, so that life can be fragrant. But just a little mistake, a moment of infatuation in love is enough to make your future castle fall.
In today’s student world, love seems to have crept deep into the school world. There are many students who have gone beyond the limit of school age love and have lost the noble meaning of school age. They lost their lives in fleeting moments. They have left a memory of their school days with a stain that cannot be easily erased.
But school-age love is not necessarily negative. The love of school age has given wings to many couples to enter the university lecture hall together. They have built themselves a beautiful, pure, and beautiful love. That is something to be very appreciative of.
In short, school-age love is the very first vibrations of life that are lovely, very pure. But because it is “the first vibration of life”, it is often not mature enough to maintain it for a long time. That love left people with beautiful memories of a school age.
How to keep school-age love from going beyond the limit?
School-age love is part of the most unforgettable memory. However, not all young people are alert and lucid enough to be able to maintain those wonderful memories.
In the article about school-age love, we offer some methods to prevent teenage love from going beyond the limit. From now on, equip yourself with the following knowledge!
Parents should pay more attention to their children. School-age love is very natural, no one can stop it. Because it is also one of the factors that help the psychology of puberty to complete and develop. Therefore, parents, instead of forbidding, spend a lot of time caring and sharing with their children.
According to Master La Linh Nga – Deputy Director of the Center for Research and Application of Educational Psychology, the best solution to handle when students fall in love early is that parents should respect and accept their children’s feelings. Because if it’s forbidden, you’ll lie. Since then, sneaking in love without proper education leads to deviant behaviors. In addition, parents should listen to friends expressing their feelings so that they can advise and advise their children on how to love properly. At the same time, teach children prevention skills to avoid unfortunate consequences.
Raise awareness of school love. It would be a mistake if the students did not cultivate the necessary knowledge about love and sex. Because not being fully equipped with basic life skills will easily lead to undesirable consequences. It is possible that many students do not listen to the teacher’s lectures, just texting and writing letters to their lovers; In some cases, there was violence to compete for the opponent. Or more dangerous is going over the limit about sex… Therefore, the school should have extracurricular sessions to educate about school-age love. In those courses, teachers let the children voice their opinions and personal views about love in the white shirt era.
For families, parents should coordinate with the school in various ways to equip their children with basic skills in puberty and adolescence. Most importantly, family and teachers must be a reliable emotional support for children to overcome this psychological period with many changes and disturbances.
Love with heart and mind. If you are not mature enough and sober to love properly, the one who suffers will be you. Therefore, you should take love as the goal to improve yourself, share joys, sorrows, and pressures in life.
When in love, both should put study first, study together to improve. And don’t spend too much time dating, texting, hanging out… Please use your reason to allocate the appropriate time between love and study. After all, love at school age, don’t let the heart overwhelm the mind, but let the mind conquer the heart.
It doesn’t matter what age you fall in love, what matters is how you love and treat your love. As students sitting on school chairs, you are absorbing knowledge and learning the most civilized values of humanity. Therefore, love so civilized, so progressive that that love will forever be the most brilliant youthful memories that you can never forget.
Love school age should or not?
Love school age should or not?
This is a question not only students but also parents and teachers want to find the answer to. Below, we will discuss whether school-age love should or not. Hope you will find your own answer.
School age love is like a double-edged sword, just used incorrectly will hurt us. So let’s make our love simple, so positive. Thus, it becomes a part of the most beautiful youth. So when we use that knife properly, what will we get?
For students with the right awareness and education, with clear orientation, the love of school age will be a lever to motivate each other to progress in learning. Because at that age, you are afraid of being compared with your lover. Therefore, you will try to learn to be at least equal to the person you love in study and later in life. Above all, the love of students is the catalyst for nurturing adult emotions and thinking more maturely. You will experience the purest, most sincere happiness.
Even though we know that school-age love gives us sweet memories, if you don’t master yourself and aren’t strong enough to use your mind to overwhelm your heart, it will have unpredictable consequences. First of all, poor academic performance. In class, you don’t listen to the teacher’s lectures, but text, write love letters… Outside of class, you spend time with your other half, dating, missing… Your homework will be put aside. So you neglect your studies.
Then love can have sexual consequences. This is one of the dangerous consequences that school-age love causes. During puberty, your mentality will change. You are curious, curious about gender. That leads to improper behavior that causes great consequences affecting health and soul. And one of the harmful effects of early love that we want to warn about is the psychological impact after breaking up. Love is not always rosy. It is a variety of different light and dark colors. When you love, you love deeply, painting yourself a perfect picture. So that when you broke up, you were shocked, you felt like you lost everything. From there, the psyche will be hurt and the most affected people are the girls. Many of you who think unwisely will have painful actions.
Love at a young age gives us great emotions but at that age, love is not everything. A coin has two sides, so does school love. Both advantages and disadvantages always occur at the same time. It is important that you know what you should do to study well, to live well. Don’t be so focused on school love that you forget that the future is a long road ahead.
To love is to know how to live more beautiful
In the context of today’s life, there are many things that need to be discussed and pondered about love and the responsibility of youth for love. Compared with previous generations, modern people have gained equality and freedom in love. They no longer have to suffer “where parents put their children”; nor bound by strict social customs as in the past. Most people are free to choose and can be active in their search for happiness.
We no longer have to witness the suffering of couples who love each other passionately but cannot become husband and wife just because of the difference in property and class. Women also no longer have to experience suffering because of their dependent status. “My body is like a peach silk sheet – I know whose hand it is in the market”; or “I love you, and I also want to make a relationship – Fear of mother by the sea, fear of father by heaven”…
Even after marriage, if love no longer exists, they can break up and find new happiness without having to bear the harsh “hammer of public opinion” as in the old days. Daughter-in-law does not have this or that disability…”. But it is also the environment of modern life that has given rise to many misconceptions and many not-so-beautiful phenomena in love.
It seems that the things that come and go in love tend to be more and more easy and it is not uncommon for young people to change lovers like changing clothes. Many friends love to follow the “trend”: my class and school have couples, so I also don’t fall behind. Some people consider conquering the object a feat, the more “victory” the more proud of their “conquest” talent!
Some people turn love into a means to satisfy their need for entertainment and enjoyment. Many young couples easily “cohabit” a pre-marital married life. As a result, those “love-like” feelings often fall apart quickly, leaving behind frustration, disappointment, and sometimes hatred.
The saddest part is the behavior of some young people when love is not reciprocated or unfinished, or separated: lightly smeared, insulted; heavy then “for a beating”; Some people even ruthlessly destroy their lover’s body with acid or take their life.
I absolutely do not believe when someone says that those actions stem from love, because “too much love” acts blindly. Because, true love never coexists with selfishness, cruelty. On the contrary, love is always associated with fidelity, forgiveness and sacrifice. Love must make people know towards beautiful and noble actions.
It will become a source of magical strength to help each person overcome difficulties and challenges on the path of life. I remember the old songs:
“Three years of salt is still salty
Ginger nine months ginger is still spicy
Our love is heavy and meaningful
Even if we are far apart, we will be far away from each other for thirty thousand and six thousand days.”
I always remember the true story of a young man from the sea, who went to the hospital to take care of his relatives, happened to meet a girl with a serious illness and fell in love with her. He overcame the opposition of the family, the inferiority of the girl to become a faithful and considerate life partner. The two became husband and wife and they were happy despite the hardships and hardships of everyday life.
Thus, love is not only passionate, passionate, longing, but first of all, you must be responsible for yourself and your lover. At my school, there was a couple that was often mentioned with admiration by the “junior” generations. You and your sister are both students living in a boarding house. When he was in 12th grade, she was in 10th grade. People around only saw him caring and taking care of her like a sister without dating or dating like many other couples.
After entering university, he still often returned to visit the children, helping people from studying to re-hanging a bookshelf, closing a coat hanger… The day she got the results of the university entrance exam, he gave them to her. gave her a diary of three years written from the moment his heart fluttered and fluttered before the bewildered face of the 10th grade girl who had just entered school; record how many times he had to hold back his heart and did not dare to confess his love to keep that girl innocent and peaceful days of school age…
I think, I heard that I was touched and impressed, then “the other insider” did not know how happy he would be when he was given and received such love. They are the people who know how to cherish and appreciate love. When love is unrequited or broken for some reason, people have a greater responsibility to preserve the beauty of this sacred affection.
Surely each of us still remembers the “plight” of the boy in the poem I love you by Pushkin: his soul is torn by many opposite emotions of unrequited love, sometimes quietly, silently, sometimes fiercely jealous, at times sincere and loving… But that guy voluntarily left because he respects the serenity and peace in the soul of the girl he loves.
He said goodbye to her with the blessing “May you have a lover like I loved you”. In life, there are also many couples who should not be predestined to be friends or still remember each other with good memories. They have overcome their own suffering and disappointment without hurting others, without offending love.
My father has a close friend since childhood, he loves a girl from the same university but she loves someone else. For several years, he persisted in “pursuing”, and was disappointed and miserable but did not have a word of resentment or anger even though his sincere feelings were not reciprocated. When each person had their own family, he was still interested in her life, quietly helping her when she was sick and in trouble.
At the age of 49, she died of an incurable disease, her uncle returned from a long business trip, went to the cemetery with my father, burned on her grave a paper with yellowed words from thirty years ago: “The one I love love forever still love”… I think it’s people like that who honor the value of love between life.
Each era can add and subtract criteria for valuing people and life. But with love alone, perhaps the “value standard” is still a constant constant. The way to love is colorful and colorful and love can bring joy and happiness; It can also cause pain, sadness, and regret. But that love is forever a priceless gift of life. Of course, it depends on how each person gives and receives it. For me, love is knowing how to live a better life.
What is school-age love? Should students fall in love?
Perhaps everyone has at least once in their life experienced a beautiful youth with innocent and pure love, maybe one-sided love can also be love and be loved. But is school-age love mature and lasting in these early moments of life? Many people often talk about this kind of love, but few people understand what is school-age love? School-age love should or should not? This has remained a controversial and debated issue over the years.
School-age love is the most innocent and memorable emotion of each person’s youth. During that time, there were many times when you encountered a look, a figure that made your heart flutter. It can be said that student love is the deepest and most unforgettable first love in a person’s life, it is the sweetest, truest, romantic and purest emotion that you can hardly find when you grow up. can again. It is often said that the best things pass quickly.
If I have to define school-age love, I can only say that: School-age love is an emotion that begins to fall in love with youth, it has a pure, innocent, gentle and simple soul. single. This is a funny love that contains timidity, innocence, sincerity and burning. School-age love is sometimes simply waiting for each other to go to school in the morning, helping each other in studying, waiting for each other to finish school, and sipping sweet ice cream together with fun filled with innocent laughter. youth.
School-age love is not diverse, but it has many different nuances.
One-sided love at school age is a kind of secret love, every day just seeing the person you like, silently observing that person is enough to make you feel happy and happy. His face was shy and timid, evident every time he faced that person. This love is so fragile and new that people are naive and confused.
School-age love is impulsive, sincere when loving and being loved. For the first time in my life, I experienced such a new, strange and exciting feeling. Young people who fall in love will pour their hearts into their love, every day they take each other to school, go to ice cream parlors together during recess or meet up under the stone benches in the school yard. , shy handshakes, first kisses… For the first time in life, knowing how to love makes people caught up in it in an impulsive and enchanting way.
Love school age should or not?
It is difficult to answer this question, love of school age is often not encouraged by teachers or parents. However, those are teenage emotions that cannot be mastered. The love of students gives you more motivation in studying, trying to learn to achieve better results in the eyes of that person. Thinking in a positive way, you and your partner will learn to support each other. It is the love of students that will motivate you to strive every day, these innocent feelings will nurture positive emotions in you, always strive to become the ideal person in the eyes of people. ta. As you begin to fall in love, you will gradually adapt to experiencing many different emotions in love. These things are the premise for you to become more mature, for your emotions to become more complete and mature. Through your youth, when you have grown up and look back, you will certainly never encounter such feelings again. When it comes to the girl/boy who accompanied you at the age of 17, you will surely never forget those precious moments, it was so beautiful, pure and innocent that it seemed like a dream. Even if the person who accompanies you is not that girl/boy, those beautiful memories will remain forever in your memory.
The time of new love always makes us distracted, distracted from studying, every day just focusing on love and dating with the lover. If you do not know the balance between love and study, it will greatly affect your study results. This is also the main reason that parents worry and do not want their children to fall in love early when they are still in school. School-age love is accompanied by curiosity and curiosity about each other due to the change and development of psychophysiology at this age, leading many young people to go beyond the limit. This is too early, you are not mature enough to take responsibility for yourself. Many female friends are too young and of school age to face a lot of pressure, leading to negative thoughts and actions that affect their health, future and life.
School-age love also has two sides, if you say you shouldn’t love when you’re still in school, it’s really difficult, at this time the body is developing, physiological and psychological changes appear, and signs of love appear. At the beginning of our lives we cannot control ourselves. But it also depends on the thoughts and consciousness of each person. If you have a good sense of learning, balance between study and love, encourage and help each other to strive for high results in study, love will become more positive.
Student love, should it?
We often hear a lot about couple love, young love, unfinished love, middle-aged love and mature love. But few people know that there is an equally passionate love, which is the love of students. How do you feel about this love? For me, the love of students is the most beautiful, most innocent and most dreamy first vibes in life.
Because it’s a promise for the future, a blushing shy fist. And the letters that have not been sent because the moment of separation has come. Or every time after class, wait for each other under the pink phoenix. So that when we grow up, we cherish the salty moments of a youth. There are memories, happy and sad memories. However, not everyone is brave enough to steer that boat to adulthood. Because of our youth, we think impulsively, that immature love is not strong enough to overcome the big waves. Therefore, many love affairs of a book period ended in regret and regret.
School-age love is the love between a man and a woman that is born and developed while still in school. Previously, school love happened only in high school. However, now, many students at the junior high level have also been shaken. Early love that arose in school has become a painful worry for parents. One of the reasons leading to early love is a fuller material and spiritual life. That makes children develop both physically and psychologically.
On the other hand, you are exposed too early to information about love and sex, leading to curiosity and curiosity. In addition, the awareness of the apricots is still limited. Thoughts of simple love and no sense of responsibility. Therefore, it is very important to improve students’ knowledge about sexual love.
When you grow up, in a certain moment you suddenly think about the youth of 17 years old, it will remind you of a fluttering and restless feeling that you will never experience again in the future.
Don’t fall in love early
There are many things also called love such as the love of children for their parents, teachers, friends or the love between two people of the opposite sex. But perhaps when it comes to school age, that love is the love between two people of the opposite sex.
This love is expressed in the agreement of a son and a daughter. They can endure for each other and change themselves to suit the other. They also show love in caring, caring, asking questions or meeting daily to see each other happier.
When in love, human life is full of bright pink. In the past, this beautiful sacred love was expressed in people of adult age, but today, it also appears at the age of students. Is that good? This is a question many people ask. Because the students are still too young, their ability to perceive life is too limited, making them not think critically, but have decided on something and do not think about the consequences later.
Love is a beautiful emotion, so the act of love is also a beautiful act in accordance with the culture such as being allowed by the family, recognized by the society, etc., but today, the traditional culture is gradually fading away. in school age. The more modern society and the more open to integrate with the world, the more we are always attracted by bad cultures in other countries.
Even with integration, we still need to promote the good cultural traditions of our nation, not forget or change a part of that beautiful culture. And love at a young age, we will not understand what is beautiful and true love because thinking has many limitations and cannot think about the future. And gradually we will see that love is really tasteless, it only makes people suffer more and more.
As the current situation, the students love each other early and have leisurely lifestyles to dedicate their lives to love, forgetting about the good future that lies ahead. When we fall in love, we always think about the other side, making us lose a lot of time and not focus on studying. There are also students who consider schooling only due to family compulsion, so going to class can’t concentrate and sometimes leads to dropping out of school to meet the person they love.
So is early love good? Absolutely not because it makes people far behind with a good future ahead. And when we are still a student, let’s determine our own good learning goals, put aside the trivial things around to focus our efforts on striving for the good goal we are choosing. Do not rush to fall in love too soon because when we fall in love too soon we can be taken advantage of by others and cause unforeseen bad consequences.
When going to society, we should not trust others too much because maybe they will harm ourselves. When we go to school, let’s listen attentively to the useful advice of teachers and schools because the school not only teaches knowledge in books but also teaches us how to live in a way that suits the situation. scene of life.
When you see your friends fall in love early, don’t follow them, but help your friends realize the consequences of falling in love too soon. Speak in intimate terms that your friend can absorb and understand. When you help someone, you help that person’s future. That’s why love at school age is not appropriate. We need to speak up and educate them more closely so that they understand the importance of learning, not just studying and taking that time for work. love makes learning results low.
So when we are young, let’s take care of our own future before we have success and position in society, then suddenly true love and happiness will come to you. Because you are the future sprouts of the land, so the more successful you are, the richer, more beautiful and more civilized this country will be. And each student needs to be more conscious and responsible for themselves and determine the right life path they have chosen.
Must be oriented to have true love
Love is inherently the needs and rights of each individual, accepted and respected by society. But if it happens in the wrong way, at the wrong age, it will lead to serious consequences, affecting many people. Love is a passionate emotion that makes people intimately attached and responsible to each other. . Love between the two sexes is defined as “the result of the combination of human instincts and intelligence”, directing people to Truthfulness, Compassion, and Beauty.
Couple love comes from two sides, based on sincerity and mutual trust, sharing the same life purpose, the same ideal; willingly and voluntarily joined together in a family. Therefore, noble love is one of the important factors regulating behavior and activities; directly affect the tendency, capacity, personality, humanistic lifestyle of people.
School love is the love between boys and girls, born and developed at school age. A common phenomenon is that between male and female students arise special affection, closeness, like to see each other and a feeling of nostalgia when apart. Many people think that it is just a mistaken feeling between close friendship and true love, but in fact, it has been proved that it is a sincere and very serious emotion that arises in people, is the first foundation to go. to true love later.
In the past, school love was only popular in high school age, when they reached a fairly complete development of physical and psychological well-being, ready to enter the big life. But today, Many students at the lower secondary level have also felt “in love” and want to have a close relationship with friends of the opposite sex. Even at younger ages, this phenomenon of early love appears.
The fact that young people know how to love earlier causes many problems for the family and society. While this is a fairly common phenomenon, an inevitable trend of the times, many parents are still not ready to accept and have effective solutions to help their children develop safely. respectable.
One of the reasons leading to this phenomenon is that a full and comfortable material and spiritual life makes children develop more physically and mentally. Scientists have proven that once the body develops with adequate nutrients, the body’s perfection also occurs quickly, the age of love also comes earlier.
Due to the rich spiritual life, access to a lot of physiological information through media channels and the surrounding world gives rise to curiosity, curiosity to know the feeling of love and being loved in students. With the development of technology and media, students tend to have earlier access to information about gender, feelings and images about people.
Due to their limited cognitive ability, simple thinking about love and responsibility in love, many students recklessly plunge into risky and dangerous relationships, easily becoming the object of exploitation by others. other.
Because they do not want to be inferior to their friends and love to discover themselves, students are looking for a lover.
On the other hand, due to the drastic change of social relations under the impact of the market economy, along with the support of modern technological and technical means such as movies, internet, mobile phones, etc. move…so love soon arose at school age. Love between boys and girls in school is a common problem, no longer a rare one.
School-age love is not only love between students and students, but also love between students and teachers, even love between homosexuals. School love has become a movement, a “fashion” that students want to have to “affirm themselves” with friends.
School love is publicized and becomes bolder. No longer hiding, shy, timid and discreetly transferring letters through books, through desk drawers like in the past; Students who now like each other have to openly hold hands and cuddle like in the movies, even in the classroom in front of their friends and teachers, there are also expensive and strange confessions that are celebrated. Online.
The cases of jealousy, intimidation, and mutual shame just because of the love of students in the past years have caused many problems in schools. A large part of school violence cases are caused by school love, which makes society extremely angry.
From friendship to love is natural, there is nothing to avoid. True love is always pure, it is in the heart, not in the senses. True love is also an important key to open the doors of happiness. A true love will become the driving force for young people to strive in study and in life to fulfill their beautiful dreams and ambitions.
However, it is still not advisable to fall in love at an early age because love is closely related to the duties and responsibilities of each person. At the student age, take care of your studies, train yourself, gradually improve yourself, improve your will to live, and raise your ideals of being ready to receive love when you are an adult. There is no rush because sooner or later love happens to each of us.
Due to their immaturity both biologically as well as socially, the student age is not mature enough to fully understand the meaning of love, the sense of self, the sense of responsibility, nor the skills necessary to understand the meaning of love. skills needed to make the most appropriate treatment decisions for each particular situation, thus leading to inevitable deviations in love.
Love inherently raises a lot of requirements to maintain it. Spending a lot of money on dates and gifts. Have to spend a lot of time together and deal with related matters in love. Love at school age is still not accepted by society and family. Therefore, students who are in love or cheating make their parents insecure and worried, affecting family feelings.
Love seriously affects the learning and life of students. Students in love often lose focus, reduce their ability to absorb lessons, neglect, truant, and have poor academic results, leading to a loss of trust in teachers and friends. Feeling infatuated in love completely overwhelmed the mind, making students just want to talk, meet their lover, no longer care about other things. When they have a lover, students often show that they dress up and make-up is expensive.
Once love is offended, jealousy arises, violent fights, violations of the law lead to imprisonment. Once love is broken, heartbreak, mental breakdown, pessimism, let go of everything. I even want to destroy myself. When I love people, it is easy to blindly lead to unfortunate consequences. When in love, it is easy to be attracted to desire, easy to fall into the wrong path, get pregnant unexpectedly, have an abortion, etc., leading to dropping out of school halfway, the gate to a bright future is closed, and talents are wasted. cost, life goes downhill miserably.
School love is not wrong, but when love knocks on the heart’s door, before accepting it, ask yourself if you are confident enough, brave enough, mature enough, enough life skills to be able to turn love into action. strength in learning, in life or not.
When you fall in love, you must orient yourself to have a true, pure and strong love. Don’t just put your emotions first and misunderstand your feelings. Always know how to think soberly so as not to overcome the limits that are not allowed, in order to preserve a beautiful and pure love.
If you are not in love, do not rush to search, you should live healthy in friendship (both male and female), in the love of family. Learn the basic and necessary knowledge about sex, reproductive health, psychology… so that when you’re really mature, self-love will be more mature, more sincere, nobler and more beautiful. .
Turn student love into strength
One look is enough to make anyone’s cheeks red…
The love of a beautiful and innocent school age always stirs poems and is a topic that consumes a lot of ink for students, parents and teachers. Especially in the era of developing technology like today, all barriers and distances are becoming closer.
Therefore, there are many conflicting opinions about the love of a poetic notebook fashion – school age love! Thinking of school-age love, many people will immediately think of its bad effects, especially the parents who taught us to be human.
There have been countless girls and boys who were forbidden by their parents to fall in love with friends of the opposite sex. There have been countless “teens” who had to sit at home listening to lectures when parents discovered that their children had unusual expressions in their friendships. In particular, there are “teens” who are more miserable when their parents control both making friends, going out, and going to school.
But it’s not unreasonable for parents to do so. Any parent can recognize the cause of the times their teen is learning to smile to themselves. Any parent can get angry when they receive their child’s poor grade on a teacher’s harsh criticism of their poor academic performance for the simple reason that their child didn’t have time to study last night.
And even more irritated when paying the phone bill with some machines appearing thick and dense. Worse still, there are shallow, impulsive “teens” who leave home for a reason like no other: “I’m leaving because she’s the ideal of my life. Parents don’t understand me!” It sounds ridiculous at first, but this story is true from the person who did it. Later, thinking back to herself was also funny and embarrassing. I don’t know when hearing this, does anyone in our family’s “teen” startle?
And yet, in a time when all distances have become as close as today. A handshake, a few glances during class, handwritten letters passing the desk have become as old as the earth. Our “teens” now love to have to shoulder, hug, and kiss in the classroom. It’s not uncommon to see such objectionable scenes. Only suffering those who consciously itch eyes to see; just love the annoying teachers do not want to say.
Not only that, having been in love, many “teens” want to be romantic like Korean movies; stop crying and cry, get along and close. As a result, both the man and the woman fell behind in their studies. In short, if talking about the harm that school-age love causes, it is still long. Every problem has many facets. There are negatives, there are positives.
Some of you study better because of love. Ask the new reason: because I don’t want to be inferior to my lover. Not only that, when you’re in love, if you know how to help each other learn so that both of you can progress, that’s great! When you have a soul mate who understands you and always shares your joys, especially sorrows, you will feel more comfortable; and sometimes he or she gives useful advice to encourage and comfort you.
Having such a school-age love is so beautiful and meaningful! Therefore, what we “teens” should do is not try to suppress our feelings or go easy on them, but we should learn to think maturely and consciously so that our school-age feelings become good and healthy. it come with alot of profit!
Love with heart and mind
Student age is the age from 18 and up, the most beautiful and carefree age. The age we are still in school is the time when we are still in our youth, when we still have fun with friends, sing together, and study together. It can come from admiration or close friendship. Falling in love at school age if we meet the right person at the right time, it will certainly be a very beautiful love that will leave thousands of deep memories.
After that, no matter what the result is sustainable or break up. We will not regret it because in those years we bravely loved with all our heart, wholeheartedly devoted our whole heart to one person. School-age love is beautiful because it is not self-interested, not calculated nor ambitious. However, love at school age is like a double-edged sword, so it has a positive side and also a negative side.
If we are not alert, mature, and properly controlled, the person who will be hurt will be ourselves and will cause unforeseen consequences. Love can help us take each other as a goal to perfect ourselves to be perfect and better, can share joys and sorrows together, the pressures of life, take care of each other, overcome difficulties, give useful advice and help each other.
When in love, if both of them put learning first, that’s a good thing, they will study together to improve. But if we neglect our studies because of love, that’s really not good. Allocate appropriate time to study and achieve good results so as not to disappoint parents, teachers who believe in us.
Don’t spend too much time on dating, chatting, hanging out, … without spending time studying and practicing. There are some cases after breaking up with a lover due to unbearable pain leading to thoughtless use of suicide to avoid it without daring to face and deal with it. Nowadays, talking about suicide for love is not too strange for everyone.
The worrying thing is that these cases happen in people who are too young. Just because of a minute of impulsiveness, lack of thought, they chose the negative path. They passed away at a very young age, the future was still open, the university door was still waiting ahead, leaving their loved ones with extreme pain and irreparable loss.
To reduce that heartbreaking situation, for families, parents need to care, share and educate their children to clearly identify and be careful with external relationships. For schools, it is necessary to open an emotional education forum so that students can clearly identify their own feelings, avoid misunderstandings about emotions, actively practice life skills, and psychological education. apple to distinguish between admiration and true love.
Perhaps because we are too young, our life experience is not much, our thinking is still foolish, so it has led to painful things. Love is not wrong because love comes from the vibration and sympathy between two people, from the heart and soul, so we cannot control it. But let’s love consciously and intelligently enough, think clearly to have a beautiful and pure love.
In short, when falling in love, don’t let the heart overwhelm the mind, let the will conquer the heart. Student love is as sweet as bitter as well. However, we still want to experience that feeling once. If we fall in love, then love wisely, think carefully to avoid hurting yourself, don’t fall in love blindly and forever fall in love. Only when we are awake enough can we have a beautiful love.
