DON’T LISTEN TO OTHER Opinions
Whenever there is a problem, everyone wants to find a friend to confide in, but you should find the right person to listen to advice. You yourself are an independent individual, all your decisions determine the value of your life, so the thoughts of others affecting you have both positive and negative sides. So why should you not care what other people think? There are people who think it’s for the best, but that’s in their situation, not your life. You live, you understand what you need and what you have to do to make your life better. This means that you are solely responsible for every decision you make. whether success or failure.
When posing a problem, it is important to see and evaluate whether the views of others and your own reality are appropriate to apply. It may not necessarily be that bad for you, as that’s why you should consider doing it, but pay attention, because there may be other, better, more appropriate ways. To others, your thoughts may be garbage, but only you can see what you need. Your life, when you decide to do something, even if you take the advice of others, but all the consequences are borne by you. They just use their words, or their thoughts to impose on you and of course, when finished, all responsibility is removed, because the decision to do or not is up to you. Don’t listen to the wise man foolishly.
When you love each other, you should be honest with each otherDon’t hide anything from each other. You will make the other person feel disrespected, making a fuss is not good. Honest It will also build the trust of others in you. Be honest with your feelings, your personality and your mistakes; but at the same time learn to accept the honest together from the very beginning. When the husband and wife talk, try to open up so that they can know the real thoughts and feelings in each other. The more natural and genuine, the easier it will be for a woman and her partner to find the right path to each other’s hearts.
Not hiding the truth, the two will build trust in the family. That belief is very important and will make people understand that when they return to their families, they will be welcomed and loved by their loved ones no matter what. Real love doesn’t mean doing whatever the other person wants or pretending to be someone you’re not. Someone who truly loves you will never force you to do anything against your will or involve you in dangerous activities. Without respect, no relationship can last, and two people can’t forever bring out the best in each other.
Usually when arguing, it is always the boy who makes up first. But there’s no law that says it’s a boy who should be the first to apologize. So if a girl makes a mistake, you should be the one sorry, make peace with your man firstAvoid things getting out of your control. Don’t let things be irreparable. Arguing with that person is inevitable, but you will choose heal with them in what way? It is very important to behave maturely when handling disagreements. That means you will take responsibility for your actions and boldly apologize when you make a mistake. You also need to communicate openly with the person and always listen attentively. After an argument, give your partner positive attention and be willing to make changes to maintain a good relationship. Avoid holding grudges or letting arguments affect your day.
Let’s work together to find solutions and end conflicts. You both need to agree heal to mend relationships. No matter what you and your partner argue about, you’re still part of the argument. Be humble and admit that you were wrong. Don’t use “but” or “you should” and focus on your part in the argument. If you feel that being right is more important than relationship peace, it’s time to lower your ego. Instead of focusing on proving you right, get to know the other person’s point of view. Pay more attention to their thoughts and perspectives and don’t forget their relationship is still more important than analyzing right and wrong.
DON’T SPEAK WRONG
In a romantic relationship, there can be a lot of couples who do not cheat, “cuckold” and there is also no couple without conflicts and arguments. How to resolve these conflicts to avoid worsening the relationship is something that few people notice and care about. When arguing, if both of you are in a state of anger and frustration, you need to wait quietly until you are calm and then meet to discuss privately. Never be too eager lest you come back indiscriminate speech. If neither of you is willing to give in and you always want to be the winner, that will only make the situation worse. Even the fact that you like to scream, yell at your partner and overwhelm them with no explanation is an opportunity to ‘kill’ the relationship.
When you are frustrated, the best advice is not to go to Facebook, Instagram to post anything about the current status because at this time it will be easy. speak Thoughtless sentences that you will regret later. No one wants others to know about the rift in the relationship between the two of you, those who understand it are okay to comfort, those who do not understand, add salt and salt to make the situation more complicated than ever. Indiscriminate speech On Facebook, it will cause friction among social network users, lose civilization, worsen the good images of social networks, and even be fined and detained if there are words offend the honor and dignity of others…
THIRD PERSON APPEARANCE
While there 3rd person If you appear to disrupt the happiness of the two of you, please calm down and solve it, do not break up. If you broke up, it turns out you did 3rd person gloating, achieving their goals, but I am miserable, sad, and regretful. To anyone, 3rd person are all very obnoxious. Therefore, they all feel uncomfortable when they are in the middle of their feelings. The common psychology in this case is anger, discomfort and fatigue. Therefore, many people have acted angry and thoughtless. This is really not a good thing, benefiting you or your feelings in case there is 3rd person. Upon seeing the appearance of third wheel, please stop for a moment. Give yourself time to think deeply about the current situation. This is important to prevent you from doing unpleasant, regretful actions.
When you calm down, you can see the story concretely in reality. Chances are the two of them are just friends. And that story has never been as serious as you imagine. An important thing you need to find out is how your lover’s real relationship with the third person is. Do they really interact with each other or just 3rd person trying to get in your love? Getting to know the real situation will help you a lot. In particular, this is also the time when you can show your lover your discomfort through subtle actions. This will bring a lot of benefits compared to hasty, frustrating or somewhat crazy actions.
SPEAK TIME Alone
Not seeing the person can help both of you think more clearly and regain your composure. However, you need to talk to the person about your need to be alone. Before doing what you want, meet the person or talk a few days in advance so that the problem does not continue to drag on. This is a way to allow the two of you to reframe your feelings and find a solution. This also lets your partner know that you have no intention of breaking up. For example, if you live with your partner, you might spend a day or weekend going somewhere alone or spending a lot of time outside. If you don’t live together or are in a long-distance relationship, try stopping contact for a short period of time, like a day or two. Let’s spend time alone, enjoy your own time especially after hard working days or study sessions. This is how you relieve stress and understand yourself better.
There will be choices and decisions that you need to make alone and then loneliness is a great help if you know how to use it properly. You can completely make decisions easily without hesitation or fear because you have simply formed a solid foundation of yourself during your time alone. That foundation is what you are, about what you want, what you need, or what your future desires. Your job spend time alone It also means that you know how to care for yourself more, listen to yourself and also know how to love yourself more. Focus only on yourself, doing things that no one can forbid. Let’s spend time alone to look at all issues in a thorough manner.
Every time we argue, everyone will be very angry. If you feel so frustrated, be quiet. Wait until you calm down to solve it. Do not be too tight, lest you speak indiscriminately. All decisions in anger will make you feel regret, regret. There is a sentence “Silence is gold“I want to remind each person to know how to silent Avoid unnecessary collisions. As the old saying goes, “Learning to speak takes only two years, but learning to be silent takes a lifetime!” and that is also the reason that each person has two ears to hear but only one mouth to speak. When conflict comes, every word spoken out of control can become blades that hurt others. Therefore, silent sometimes worth more than a thousand words…
Pythagoras once said: “Silent is the highest level of wisdom. Who does not know silence is not talking”. And Martin Luther King Jr said: “Our lives begin to end the very day we keep them silent to serious problems”. Silent is the highest level of human wisdom in life. From the foundation of the silent With that wisdom, people will know when and what to say. Silent is not to speak in unnecessary times because such words can bring disaster to oneself or harm others.
Forgive Always a very essential element for couples. Especially when arguing. What can be ignored should be let go, do not try to insist on making corn and potatoes, it will not be very good. That’s really not good for you. Forgive has been described as the ultimate form of love, because it tests the depth and strength of a couple’s feelings. NS forgive It is likened to an art that can take someone a lifetime to master, something that people don’t stop learning all their lives. However, in terms of reality, we will find that there are things that seem to be forgive But it’s not like that, in fact. Such as, forgive is not a waiver of liability for the at-fault; forgive does not require the guilty person to show remorse and make reparation; forgive it’s not like admitting you’re wrong; forgive not conciliation…
Thath not a feeling, forgive It is the fastest and most effective way to get rid of negative emotions. Forgive makes us more comfortable, lighter, it is an important and difficult choice to forget the bad things that happen. It will free us from sadness and fear in our hearts. After you forgive, you are not to erase mistakes, but to get rid of negative emotions in your mind, you are freeing yourself. Remove the hurt, let time fade that scar, you will see, forgive It is the best way to calm the mind. Do not continue to hold resentment. Let him or her know that you forgive for them and don’t want to hold onto negative feelings towards them or the relationship.
Try everyone yield to each other a little, each person condescend Take a moment to reflect, don’t overdo things and then get too angry. This is really dangerous for hot-tempered people who can’t control their emotions. In love, it is not enough to just love each other to be stable. Sometimes you need to know condescend, accept some things of “over there”. In the past, the image of a Vietnamese girl was always associated with the condescend, suffered hard. So when it comes to sacrifice condescend Girls are the first to come to mind. In some quarrels, no matter who is right or wrong, “each side wants to keep their ego to themselves”. So “the competition between the two sides begins” inconclusive. Each time like that, one of the two sides must enter the water first, even though they know that “I did nothing wrong”. However, if once, twice, it’s okay to “give up”. And if every day “climbing on top of other people’s necks”, then forcing people to gave way Even the “Buddha” can’t stand it.
To have a long-term relationship or a beautiful relationship, it requires both to love and respect each other. It is the “model” couples who also share that they always solve problems slowly so that there is never an argument. There are some couples who think that, even when they get married, they have to work hard to keep their marriage condescend As a family, it’s not about who loves who more, but who accepts whom more. Nobody is perfect, neither is your lover, how can you ask him to love you more than you do. He sacrifices for you, you also need to spend some thought to cultivate the love of both sides. Having loved each other, being better than “forbearance”, is better than each other in the word acceptance. If you do not learn to listen and share, you will soon lose your love.
OPEN LISTEN TO HEARING HIM
When you can discuss the fight with your partner, focus on listening. It’s easy to want to think about what to say or defend yourself, but right now understanding the person is the top priority. Avoid interrupting or thinking about what you are going to say while the other person is speaking. Instead, give them your full attention, look them in the eye, and paraphrase what you understand. For example, summarize what they said when they finished by saying, “I can understand that you want me to share more about how I feel.” Avoid using descriptive language like “always” and “never”.
Ignore the urge to prove you’re “right”. Instead, be humble and listen to the other person’s point of view. Don’t forget to acknowledge that they were right in some way. Only You need to open your heart to listen, at least, you will realize, you will be useful to someone, some people, somewhere, in this life. When the relationship between two people is falling apart, you need to open up and listen to that person. When he talks about his concerns, give him sympathetic looks and reassuring hugs or nods. This shows that you are listening attentively and caring about their feelings. Thus, the new relationship is reconciled and between the two people there will be a better understanding of each other.