Because you overestimate yourself
This is the personality of some guys here, some guys flirt with girls in the way of waiting for people to confess first, even though you like them, you wait for them to text you first. There are actually people like that, this is the number of guys with the highest failure rate.
Or you flirt with her but you text her for a day and then a few days later you continue to ask, sometimes it’s been too long without seeing her opinion before you continue to chat. So you’ve created an opportunity for other guys to flirt with her, so you continue to be lazy.
Because you lack patience
Usually guys who have never been in love are very impatient in flirting with girls, when talking, they just want to make her fall in love with me right away. That’s why sometimes you are in a hurry, just getting to know that person you want to burn off the stage of skipping the boring acquaintance stage, to move on to the dating stage.
If so, then you will fail from the first time you talk to her. Anything needs patience, you should remember the saying “urgent is unsuccessful”, everything needs to be adapted to the situation, to the problem, then you can mold it the way you want to be. .
A part of you is a meticulous person
Maybe you are a very careful person in choosing a lover, or you are a person who sets very high criteria, you are a perfectionist, so you always want to find a perfect and perfect person. That person is not only beautiful in appearance, the way to treat people must also be good, the job must be stable, not to mention some guys are afraid of the appropriate age and age.
So it is your criteria that make it difficult for you to find a life partner, difficult to have a lover. No one is perfect, maybe they have this side, they are not good on the other hand, if you keep looking for that, you accidentally become a lonely person.
The more mature women are, the more they want their men to be strong, confident, and able to cope with everything in life. In particular, women don’t like ungrateful or annoying men.
But many ungrateful or annoying people don’t know that they are. Men have many different types of ungainly, such as ungainly in speech, eating, behavior, etc.
Because you don’t have much experience flirting
Because it’s been so long that you no longer pay attention to finding a girl to confide in, talk to, love, you gradually pay no attention to how to win the hearts of the girls.
That’s why you find it extremely difficult when you have to start getting to know a girl, you will think why you are so inferior, how many people are more ugly than you, your career is not as good as you, but people still have There are so many people around and I’m still lonely. There may be times when you have thought that it is difficult for you to have a lover, so you may quickly fall into a state of depression, lose patience with chatting with girls, so you are forever alone.
Do women care about men’s looks? Are not. Come on, stop lying to yourself. Women care a lot about how men look. But the form I am talking about here is not your face, not the clothes you wear, nor your stork body… It’s all.
All these factors make up your appearance. Redefine your bad word. If your face isn’t perfect, there are plenty of other things on your body that are worth the investment. If your body is not very manly, there are ways to improve it through exercise. If your clothes are sloppy, there’s still room for improvement for the rest of your life. Try changing your appearance once in your life to be more beautiful, manly, and more attractive in the eyes of women.
You work at that company for many years now, you eat those foods every day, you sit at your computer and play games every night… you are repeating the same trajectory without any progress. The orbital nature must include good habits that we do every day, it helps us to develop ourselves and our character.
If you have been following this trajectory for two years, three years and still have not had a bear, tell you that if you are like this in a few years, the results will be the same. If you want positive results, you have to equip yourself with a good enough trajectory. Only then will you get rid of the situation where you have not had a bear that you currently have to endure.
Look at the negatives in the relationship
If you often look at the negatives of the relationship between two people, the bad scenarios, breakups, divorces, breakups, dissatisfaction, etc., you probably still haven’t loosened your grip. to accept to bring a life partner.
Life is really a double-edged sword, you think how you will express it that way. So be ready to accept someone when you can learn to accept life and create a positive mindset for yourself.
Many people associate status with having some power or status in the eyes of everyone. Status here means your social rank when you are present somewhere. If you don’t have any link to the crowd you’re standing in, your current status is nil.
For example, when you go to the gym and keep practicing there for six months, but in these six months you don’t know anyone, nor talk to anyone, it means that you have no connection with anyone. here. Or means your status is zero. If so, when you like a certain girl here, you will have to work very hard to win her over, because she doesn’t see your position. On the contrary, if you are a person with a position here, it will be very simple for you to get her attention from the first seconds.
In addition, social connection is also something worth talking about. A lot of people never look for a girlfriend, but luckily they end up with a lot of girlfriends. In fact, it’s not luck but relationships that help them do this. For example, friends play together, the introduction is very common. It helps to solve problems very quickly and efficiently.
And if your partners are people who only know how to stick their faces in books, and your friends are internet cafe buddies, I think it will be difficult to find a social link. In the end you will have to find it on your own, quite hard. That’s the second reason why you don’t have a bear yet.
Poor, no potential
Needless to say, women smell rich men miles away. I don’t say it all, but when the gap between rich and poor is widening, women will pay more and more attention to material things. There is a saying “There are two types of women, one is a career woman, the other is a man’s woman.” It is not wrong, and the truth is that Vietnamese women are not very capable of thinking and living. are both independent (especially young women), so when they are not able to build a career, they will find a way to rely on men, and even women who are able to live independently do not want to attach their lives. with men who are poor or have no potential.
We do not need too much money, just enough money to live and pay monthly is enough. But if you don’t have an income, have to save money every month for food, or depend on your parents, maybe your attraction to women is not high.
Human potential is enormous. But if your fate is not so lucky, you may have to work two or three times as hard as other people to improve your life later on. Success in the future can only succeed when you lay the brick today. Don’t let women say you don’t have potential, that’s why you don’t have a bear yet.