Do not misunderstand between practical life and reality. Whoever it is, don’t be too delusional. Especially women, need to live realistically. Agree “money can’t buy everything, but not having money will be very miserable”. But the real person is the one who doesn’t dream without foundation. Realistic people clearly understand the reality of life, do not fantasize or try to escape reality. Realistic people clearly understand their own values and abilities and seek to make the best use of their abilities. And the big mistake of many people is being pragmatic. In everyday life, pragmatists always pretend to be strong, but they just want to rely on others. They are used to living a life of being served and pampered, considering themselves number one. In love, a pragmatic girl only chooses her lover through his wallet and branded items.
Sadly, every time I watch a beauty contest, there are people in the audience sitting below who always smile, “It’s just a selection of wives for the giants!” Of course, finding a husband with a stable economy is a legitimate need, nothing to criticize. But pragmatic to the point of selling his body cheaply, despite all moral limitations, not caring about his own feelings, ready to be the third person to break other people’s family happiness. Is it worth it, for a full material life?
Lack of interest in family
Modern life with too many pastimes. It can’t be helped that young people often like noisy places. Perhaps, none of us have less than once, because we are so eager to have fun with our friends, we forget that our mother is tired of waiting for rice. Friends, you will also meet us throughout life. But how long will parents be patiently waiting for their child to return? Tolerance has become a hard habit of parents to give up, but don’t be so heartless and indifferent. Even if we go to the sky, the sea is wide, in the end the safest place waiting for us is still home…
The daughter should be the one to take care of the family. Not only parents, siblings and later husband and children. People often say “women build nests” is not wrong. In response to modern society, the home should still be nurtured by the depth and ingenuity of women.
The ego is too big
Self-expression is a legitimate need. But don’t be stubborn and selfish to force people to obey. Especially when you go to work, the collective environment does not allow you to act and behave according to your emotions. Personal ego is necessary to reveal the uniqueness of each person, but you should also learn to control emotions to easily adapt and integrate.
Most of the sufferings and insecurities in everyone’s life stem from an excessive ego. The girl who has a big ego, who always considers herself the best, does not lose to anyone, anything and looks down on the thoughts and words of others, regardless of what she does right or wrong. Unconsciously proud… It is that ego that will turn them into liar, bossy, contemptuous of others, etc. I don’t know people with too big egos, have they ever looked back to see themselves. how or not? And there is a very important thing in the high ego that we value our own worth more than the value of others, surely in our conscience will torment and self-suffer. If you go too far, it will cause confusion during the journey to find yourself. People with too big ego will think of themselves as number 1, no one is more important than themselves and gradually become overbearing and no longer care about who’s value next to them and with such a “heart”, surely people What “beautiful” girl…
Too miserable in love
Of course, no one advocates superficial, lack of seriousness. But that doesn’t mean you have to go crazy about love. You control your boyfriend 24/7, you are jealous for no reason, you die over and over again because of angry arguments. But actually, you forget the core problem, good men don’t need you to manage, bad men you want to manage can’t either. Men’s instinct is to conquer. Instead of tying him up, give him some freedom, also give you a private space to enrich your life. Just do your best at work, have fun with friends, take care of your health and beauty. When I see her beautiful, confident lover. It is the man who takes care of your feet.
Don’t take care of your health
You can eat hard just to buy a new Iphone, but always think twice when spending money to buy insurance for yourself. How long has it been since you have had a medical check-up on the advice of a doctor? You stay up all night and all morning to watch a movie. You wake up with a tired body. You rush to the company car regardless of how much danger. Do you find yourself being too superficial with your life and health? Stop before it’s too late! Instead of abusing cars and motorbikes. Take a 15 minute walk every day. Practice some simple yoga movements, live in moderation, buy insurance and get regular health check-ups. Those things don’t waste your precious time!
Do not learn, supplement knowledge
If you’re still thinking, after graduating, you don’t need to learn anything more. You have failed completely. The day you put on your bachelor’s shirt, receive your university degree, is also the day you officially enter a harsher school. There you don’t need to study for exams, don’t need to race for scores. There are only expensive lessons, paid with sweat and tears only! If you become an engineer, learn from your workers how to make each product. If you work as an office worker, practice how to make tea, pour water, enter data, and type well. Don’t think that someone is bullying you. Simply, if you want to succeed, you must practice for a long time, no glory comes in a day or two.
Always dreaming about the perfect man
The guys are both handsome and talented, rich and loyal. Please confirm, it is just a product of the genre of love stories and idol movies! The man worthy of your love may not be romantic, but will comfort you when you are sad, help you when you are in trouble, and will seriously remind you when you make mistakes. The most respectable virtue in men is political opinion. He cannot obediently listen to you all the time, regardless of right or wrong, regardless of the consequences. He also can’t immediately show up every time you ask for it. Simply, because he has to go to work, to be responsible for the work, to work hard to earn money, to take care of and nurture his life. So, girls, let’s fold the romance and be realistic!
Losing faith in marriage
Is it because he is too attached and absorbed in the pursuit of the ideal man. Until the reality is too harsh. The new girlfriends begin to become disillusioned, leading to a loss of faith in married life. Actually, there are no perfect “handsome” guys, but there are still many good men in this world. Look around, right in your family. If your father is not a good man, how can you have the full life you have today? Who raised you to be a decent human being? Who went early to late at night tired in return for a warm, peaceful home? So, if you fall in love with a bad guy. Feel free to cry. Once you regain your composure, let’s look forward to the good things in the future.
Money is not everything, but without money nothing can be done! Does everyone recognize that truth? Therefore, even if you are a lowly employee with a salary of two or three million, spend it wisely and save at least a few hundred thousand per month. Imagine if one day things didn’t go as planned. It would be terrible if you were both heartbroken, unemployed, and had no money in your pocket. How is life like hell? Girls, learn to save! Whether more or less. Money to be beautiful, to trust, so that if you ever fall in love, pamper yourself with a really good lipstick, a fragrant perfume bottle. Knowing how to comfort myself like that, any sadness will pass.
There is no clear life goal
This is the most serious mistake and leaves the most severe consequences. Even an inanimate machine, if it wants to work well, there must be a process. So, can you live well or not when every day goes by thinking and working in a half-hearted, irresponsible way. No one can live your life for you, so set your goals clearly. What do you like? Hate what? What do you want? What’s the advantage? What’s the downside? Once you’ve defined your goals, plan specific actions. By doing so, you will have more motivation to conquer challenges. Actively choose your own reason to live, you may succeed or fail later, but you will certainly not regret it.